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“Sibylle didn’t just change how I date – she changed how I decide.
From the moment she shows up in her webinars, something just clicks. Her delivery is seamless, real, and never scripted.
Learning from her doesn’t feel like work. It feels like finally breathing easy.
But more than the tools, it’s her former self I see myself in. Where she started. How she grew.
That alone gave me more hope than any dating advice ever has. She makes healing and growth feel possible – not just aspirational.
If you’re tired of dating from your heart and ready to lead with your mind – while keeping your softness safe – this is your coach.
Gentle. Empowering. Real.”
10 Steps to Find Quality Dates, checklist plus guide, 9€
How to Filter to Find Lasting Love, recorded presentation, 9€
4 common Dating Blocks for Women after 35 – and what helps, recorded presentation, 9€
Red Flags in Dating: obvious and subtle ones, recorded presentation, 9 €
books to help you date & relate meaningfully, deeply, joyfully
"“I am richer in knowledge now and calmer about finding a partner.
Life is less black and white nowadays — connecting is beautiful!”
Wanda K., private client
The 10 Steps to Find Quality Dates give you a clear, practical roadmap to help you make dating flow.
With a checklist and accompanying voice guide, you understand what you can do to navigate dating confidently, avoid confusion and create relationships that actually go somewhere.
NOTE: the 10 steps are included in the Conscious Dating & Relating membership. You can join us on the "Get Dating Support" page.
This webinar is meant to help you avoid common mistakes in dating and to help you filter to finally make progress in your search for a life partner.
In just under an hour, you’ll learn:
the 3 core principles that create real change and lead to successful dating
the 4 most common filtering issues that block quality dates
why we’re naturally bad at filtering for lasting love – and why it’s getting worse
the solution that makes dating enjoyable and speeds up your search for a life partner
how men and women approach dating differently – and how it impacts filtering
You’re not imagining it: dating can be a real challenge, and it does get more complex with age.
However, there is a lot you can do to make dating flow – at any age. In this 40-minute presentation you learn to:
focus on what you can control,
connect with men in ways that feel good and move you forward,
make online dating work for you without getting burned out,
… and much more.
Walk away with clear, actionable steps to make dating feel easier, more grounded, and more aligned with what you truly want.
Are you sometimes unsure whether something is a red flag and if you’re missing important warning signs?
Dating in mid-life can feel complex, especially when you’re looking for something real and lasting.
In this presentation, you’ll learn how to recognise both obvious and subtle warning signs that someone is not a fit for you.
You’ll also learn:
why we ignore or minimise what we see
how attraction, hope and a man’s behaviour can cloud your judgment
how to make clearer, more grounded choices
- how to become more alert to red AND green flags going forward.
Grounded in the principles of Conscious Dating, this presentation will help you move from confusion to clarity – so you can date with more confidence, awareness, and intention. So that you can recognise a genuine match when it’s in front of you.
Made for women mid-life who are done second-guessing themselves.
In the book you'll find real-life stories of singles who used this method to overcome dating struggles and create the relationships they truly wanted, along with exercises to help you start dating with clarity and intention to find a match that's deeply fulfilling for you long-term.
A must-read for anyone who is serious about finding love – but wants to have fun in the process!
This book is not just an entertaining read, it is also a super smart, science-based guide to modern dating written by behavioural scientist and dating coach Logan Ury. It aligns beautifully with the Conscious Dating approach I use in my coaching: practical, insightful, and full of real-world advice.
Once you recognize your patterns, you can relate to others more easily and authentically, building secure connections — an essential foundation for healthy, lasting love.
“How did I get here?” is the question that journalist Lori Gottlieb explores in this candid and eye-opening book about dating and relationships. As a forty-something mother of a child she had on her own, she tries to understand why it has become so hard for her and many other women 35+ to find a partner for a committed relationship.
Her conclusions are grounded in reality and pretty sobering – and they offer many tips and insights on how to date to actually find your match.
One takeaway stands out: everyone needs to compromise in relationships. That’s not settling – it’s life.
